Be true to yourself. So often in life we find ourselves meeting many different types of people who will tell you what you think you want to hear, but they're actually just telling you what they wanna see and what they wanna hear from you. Don't be the gimmick or the stereotype you don't wanna be. Jeffa is Jeffa, plain and simple. I grow with every hour that passes because my subconscious is always thinking about life and how it works and how it would work better for me if I did X, Y and Z. And then I choose to do or don't do. I love all the basics, good music, good food, good entertainment and a few other things that you can find out about should we ever meet and have a real discussion. I love guys who know how to look good, no matter what shortcomings they may feel they have (i.e. weight, color etc). I hate to say it, but B hit it right on the head when she said "You decide when you fine, i'm what i'm working with". There is also something so sexy about a man with a brain, who has sensitivity and compassion and who is afraid of being in love and what it may do to you, but still has the courage to want to be in love and to proceed to still love someone. But until then I am always good meeting new people, making new friends and seeing where that road leads. Love ya much :) -Jeffa